Happy New Year to all! Was this year a total rollercoaster or what?! Let’s recap.
January
We started this year with a Wulff fam trip to Disneyland. LITTLE DID WE KNOW it would be our one and only trip this year!
I also visited with a few friends for a WB tour of the Gilmore Girls exhibit, and got to hang with Rachel and her friends for her birthday. Remember hanging out with lots of people? Man…
At the end of the month, Mike and I both got the flu on the SAME DAY! Was it Covid…? We’ll never know! We stayed in bed for a week and I completely lost my voice. How exciting! Sgt. Pepper was a good flu-buddy though.
February
In February, after we healed up, we started really buckling down on fixing up my dad’s house so we could get married in May (or so we thought :] ) We painted, landscaped, and complained A LOT, but looking back it was such a wonderful bonding experience, I wouldn’t change it for the world. Although, I would take less painting. That was the worst.
Mike got a job in Glendale, so we were able to start meeting up at lunch occasionally which was really fun. Please note in the photo below what he has coined to be known as his ‘depression beard’ because he really did not enjoy that job in Glendale. RIP, depression beard. Thankfully, Mike has since moved on from that gig.
Sam and I had our Galentine’s dinner at a waffle house nearby and on the 14th, I got a very beautiful delivery at work that put a huge smile on my face. Chris Pratt, in an interview around that time, confirmed what all women know – give her flowers, and she’ll love you forever.
At the end of the month, Sam and I got to see The Bachelor Live show at the Ace Theatre which is one of my favorite venues. It was a weird show, but far exceeded all expectations. Also, a coworker caught wind of our plans, so he hooked us up with some glow-roses, so we could use it as a rosy gavel and pass judgement on contestants.
March
March started off great – Mike had his bachelor party in Tahoe and all seemed right with the world.
Then… things got INTERESTING. We had to cancel our wedding shower and opt for a family dinner instead because Covid lockdown was upon us.
Once everything shut down the two most exciting things in our lives were these:
1. The squirrel that had moved into our chimney.
2. Our discovery of Postmates.
April
April brought a few little simple pleasures.
Mike and I took lots of walks around Thousand Oaks and really got to know the neighborhood.
I made some face masks for our little crew, which ended up being a little harder than expected for me, but they helped keep us safe until we could expand our mask-wardrobe. Nick even still uses his!
Mike and I had our first in-home date night, started cooking more exciting things at home, and toward the end of the month we worked on our Change-the-Date cards, as our upcoming wedding on May 2 was just no longer a possibility.
We also got to celebrate Nick’s 30th birthday at my dad’s house and enjoy the fruits of our house-labor.
Through and through, Sgt. Pepper remained unphased by the goings-on.
May
On May 2nd, we mourned/celebrated our former wedding date with a facetime with the NorCal Wulffs, and little drive to Malibu for a picnic on the grass. Then on the 4th, for our two year anniversary, Mike planned a park date complete with ramen, flowers, and perfect card.
Sam and I got to have lots of Lizzie McGuire sister nights – they really are what dreams are made of.
I also tried on my wedding dress for the first time, and luckily it fit wonderfully and no adjustments had to be made.
Later in the month, the Bear boys and the Wulff crew took a day trip to Ventura. We played Frisbee, hiked a bit, and played on the beach. We finished the day with a visit to Island Brewing in Carpinteria for a few 6-packs to-go.
We finished the month with a weekend trip to Los Osos with the family. Bonus points for the name of the town.
June
In June, we celebrated Mike’s birthday with 2 dinner parties because restaurants opened up for a hot second and we had to take advantage of that. One at Mastros, and the other at Lazy Dog with the whole fam.
A couple days later, we took a trip to Ventura during lunch to get our MARRIAGE LICENSE.
Mike and I took a little trip to Pine Mountain Club which was a very weird and great place. We took lots of hikes and drank lots of beer. We finished the trip at Finney’s in Ventura and planned our honeymoon road trip, since our original plan of Maui was no longer in the picture.
The family and I also took a trip to Big Bear for Father’s Day and got to kill about 150 moths in our air bnb which was a fun little time.
While we were gone, my Rover catsitter gave Sgt. Pepper the photoshoot of a lifetime.
July
In early July, we celebrated Sam’s birthday with a Jaws party in the backyard. The family bought of projector which has proven EXTREMELY useful and fun.
I bought a bike, so Mike and I took a lot of bike rides together. We even took a trip to Montecito for a day to ride around the beach mansions. As a bonus, we discovered what has come to be one of our favorite lunch spots that day as well.
At the end of the month, my bridesmaids and I went down to Long Beach for the most perfect bachelorette party. We watched Magic Mike, drank cocktails, met a fantastic group of gay boys, and sailed our own little boat along the coast like the nautical adventurers we are!
August
August was THE best – It was all wedding prep, all the time, with a little visit to The Buehler’s house early in the month. My beautiful coworkers also surprised me with a gorgeous bridal shower, complete with bear macarons. ❤
I celebrated my birthday at home with the fam. We had a Disneyland theme – corndogs, churros, and squelching heat. It certainly helped fill the Disney-void that had made a home in our hearts.
We had our rehearsal dinner at The Odyssey, which – fun fact- was where my first boyfriend ever asked me to be his girlfriend. Isn’t life fun?
We got married on the 22nd, and it was truly the best day ever. I just want to relive it in my brain forever, and just like any amazing time in life, I wish I could experience it all again.
We took our Honeymoon up the coast of CA and it was an absolute blast. So much beer, lots of bougie hotels, and A LOT of free champagne. Who knew all you had to do to get free stuff was get married!
September
Christine got married in September so we celebrated her with a surprise shower at Rachel’s house and got to watch the ceremony on zoom. The roosters in the background were even cheering her on, so later that night, Mike and I doodled a comic in her honor at our local dive bar.
Later in the month, Mike built a bike rack for our patio that was totally impressive, and we finally moved all his stuff into *our* condo in Thousand Oaks.
Sam and I finished the month with our yearly sister trip – we originally wanted to go to Vegas to see Shania Twain, but instead, we went to Santa Barbara and drank beer and went to the drive-in to watch Rocky Horror at Midnight.
October
We kicked of October with our annual Hocus Pocus night, and this year Nick joined us for the extravaganza.
The family took a trip to Sacramento, too, which was really great in spite of things being closed. Again, lots of beer and hikes. Are you seeing a theme here? *Spoiler alert* one of my January 2021 goals is NO BEER.
At the end of the month, Sam and I celebrated Halloween with our GLOW couples costume.
November
On the first, I met Mike up in Washington for a week to work from there. We visited a few new towns, and celebrated his mom’s birthday together with the family.
Later in the month, Mike and I took a quick trip to San Diego for fun to mix things up a bit.
We finished the month with a tiny little Wulff family Thanksgiving with homemade pies and a tiny keg.
December
We annually celebrate my dad’s birthday with a trip to Disney, so this year, we were lucky enough to be able to walk around Downtown Disney for a bit, get dinner, and shop too! It closed to on-site dining the NEXT DAY so this was truly a birthday miracle.
Mike and I got our first tree as a married couple, and BOY was it cute.
We spent Christmas in Washington, and my sister and dad were able to join as well, and we all had a snowy, gorgeous time. Out flight was delayed on the way there, so we got to Seattle finally around 2 in the morning and had an unexpected stay at the airport Mariott.
After our turbulent arrival, it was all smooth sailing – We built a snowman, had a game night as a result of a power outage, swung on a buoy, and had pastries in Leavenworth. You’ll see in the photos below my father clutching our precious box of pastries through the winter storm. He knows what his priorities are. It was a truly wonderful end to a crazy year.
xo